Ms. Understood

How often is it that you come across people who seem to have it all together but when you sart talking to them its like, waaaait what the heck just happened to the person that I said hello to?! the only reason that out responses are like that is because we instantly, upon interaction develop expectations. When those people dont meet our expectations there is something in us that automatically throws up a yield sign, "woah woah; youre definitely not who i thought you were." but how can we think that a person was or wasnt "something" when we are just meeting and learning them. Just like when we are learning in the classroom, we may learn this lesson one day but in order to completely understand the concept there will be a number of lessons to follow the initial one; hmmm this applies to all things in life. What are you thinking?

Now i am guilty of those things that i just mentioned which is the only way that I recognize it as i have; hence the reason so many of us are misunderstood. We want to judge whats there because we dont understand it and our standard is only to our own capacity, totally disregarding other individuals circumstances and backgrounds. How to change this thought process, that is the question that I ponder.

Well what i am planning to do is activate my conscience more instead of letting the subconscience kick into auto pilot. This way i can defeat the thought process and eventually it will become a habit for me to gather more information and not conclude anything because i am not one to judge or be judged.

Sooo what it there to understand?! hmmm maybe overstand a situation but a humanoid...we are walking conundrums and we have to overstand that we are not to be understood. Despite what scientists and psychologists say, we are not to be figured out and when we get that much we can focus on things that are more important. Like sustaining life and embracing everything and everyone as we are not trying to change it to fit a standard.

Which way is up?! and where does your balance come from?!

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